Imagine the fullest manifestation of your preferred reality.
What emotions do you associate with it: peace, confidence, joy, excitement, significance?
Go ahead, make a long list.
Here's the dilemma--most people have convinced themselves they don't deserve to/can't feel those ways until they get where they want to be.
If you think of positive emotions as fuel for the ride, it's the equivalent of saying I'm not going to fill the tank until I get across the country!
No, we need to access that emotional energy right now so that we can get across the country!
We don't fill up once we get there, we fill up so we can get there.
For every emotion listed, identify three ways you can express that emotion right now.
Then, get after it.
Your preferred reality is not a destination; it's a decision, managed one at a time.
"It is in the moment of every decision that your destiny is shaped." Tony Robbins