Geez, I wish more people understood this.
We're already WHOLE!
Transformation is not a matter of climbing, achieving, or performing.
It's addition by subtraction; it's about surrenderer, detachment, and unlearning.
When you commit to unbecoming, first let go of protective ways of being, then replace them with constructive alternatives.
The "secret" is to start with surrender.
Do less, much less.
"The path of awakening is not about becoming who you are; rather it is about unbecoming who you are not." Albert Schweitzer