...trying to change or improve yourself.
Seriously, just for a day, embrace who and what and where you are.
Pledge to meet reality where it's at today and immediately; you'll be participating in an infinite FLOW. #goingwiththeflow
Continually pushing against reality isn't likely to make it any better, and more often than not, it creates FRICTION, leading to stagnation.
The problem with wanting to be other than where you are, is the majority of efforts emanate from a space of self-rejection.
And all joyous, rewarding, and sustainable endeavors spring forth from a spirit of acceptance, which brings us back to BEing.
Don't think change, think evolution.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Joseph Goldstein