...is the complete and utter disempowerment of yourself as a Whole Person: MindBodySpirit®.
Sure, you can blame whoever for whatever, but it removes all accountability, which eliminates all of your opportunities for learning, growth, resilience, and evolution.
The lack of ownership openly invites the same situation back into your life, over and again--sure the characters change, but the story remains.
Once your down to the "I," you reinstate your empowerment.
"It is not only what we do, but what we do not do for which we are accountable." John Baptiste Moliere