If you aren't getting where you want to be, it's highly likely you're not spending enough time doing your inner work.
If so, you still believe that once your outer world is in order, your inner world will follow suit.
Doesn't work that way...Action ≠ Transformation!
The only way to sustainably improve the quality of your outer world is to work from the inside-out, prioritizing contemplative activities and taking compassionate action from that stance.
Action + Contemplation = Transformation!
You can't see the wind, you can only see its effects.
Your inner world (memories, beliefs, subconscious mind) is the wind, your outer world (physical reality) is the effect.
"Ego says, once everything falls into place, I will find peace. Spirit says, find peace and everything will fall into place." Marianne Williamson