Unintentionally, masses of people suspend joy in their lives.
They just can’t be happy until they get where they want to be.
They’re incredibly harsh on and critical towards themselves because they’re not there yet.
They believe “tough love” is the answer to more motivation, more discipline and more will power.
Little do they realize, self-criticism is a form of self-rejection that diminishes their self-worth and sucks all the joy out of the transformative process.
The key is to love your self along the way.
Can you love yourself each day in the process of becoming who you want to be?
Isn’t the fact you want to improve your quality of life a call for celebration?
Once you realize your behavior is the result of your environment and experiences during your formative years when you had NO control over anything, you may consider replacing your critical nature with compassionate understanding.
Compassion, as it ends up, is the healing agent and catalyst for conversion.
Love wins…again and again and again!